Ok, so this is going to be more of a picture journal entry for my own benefit so I can remember all of the fun things we did while my parents were here. Feel free to take a peek into my journal if you're so interested :)
Ron and Wendy came on the 9th of July and stayed until the 22nd. There was no wasted time. We saw everything we hadn't seen in Virginia as well as revisiting some Virginia essentials with them. Besides having tons of fun 'doing' stuff, we had tons of fun having them get to know Cooper and see our Virginia life. We miss you already!!
One thing that was so great was to have them here for Cooper's blessing! It was the first grandchild in 4 years that my dad has been able to be in the circle for! (he missed 4 while he was gone!) Cooper's donning Rudy's old Christening outfit, thanks to Rudy's mom for keeping it and letting us use it.Rudy and Dad 'man bonding' putting together a backyard toy for Tucker that Rudy's been wanting for a while.
The essence of our sightseeing trip...all looking at maps, trying to decide what to hit next...yet all still a little lost. :)
This was our first excursion-to Jamestown.
Here's the wild animal Tucker in his natural habitat...look at him as he sneaks up on his goose prey.
We are officially in the record books for our one-day tour of Jamestown, Williamsburg, Yorktown, Yankee Candle Co, AND Pierce's BBQ and made it home to put Tucker down before it got dark! WHEW!! THAT was a full day!Papa walking with Tucker around our beautiful Maymont Park. We got to see the Maymont Mansion and take a tour of all the beautiful stuff owned by the Dooley family.
Such a fun connection! Sandi Poulson, my mom's best friend in high school, lives 5 minutes away from us. Wendy and Sandi got to reunite and we got a tour from the woman who's lived here for many years and knew all the 'backroads'.
Sandi took us on a Canal Boat Tour showing us the extensive canal system George Washington set up. Tucker loved it because it ran next to an old railroad and he got to see a real CHOO CHOO!
What a handsome daddy waiting for a canal ride! :)
Sandi also showed us where she worked- a non-profit organization for religious freedom. There was a wall of religions that were persecuted through the ages, the far end picture is Dallin H. Oaks, representing the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints.
We went to Charlottesville on our last full day, starting with an old style colonial meal at Michie's Tavern...YUM.
Then moving onto James Monroe's house...which we didn't get to see because they charged lots o money just to even see the outside of the house.
So then we hit an old shopping area then off to Monticello to see Jefferson's house. He had a great view!
Look! It's the back of a nickel! Fun to be where Jefferson lived.
Cute Nana doing her favorite thing while in Richmond...holding cute Cooper.
Good times hanging out and playing games filled in the rest of the vacation.
Random picture of CUTE BABY FEET! I have a thing for baby feet.
Random picture of CUTE COOPER! I have a thing for Cooper. :)
Random picture of CUTE WOLF BOYS! I have a thing for my wolf boys! :)
Friday, July 25, 2008
Crazy fun times with Mom and Dad Gardner
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Tuesday, July 1, 2008
Cooper John Wolf
He's finally here!! :) We welcomed this little bundle of joy to earth on June 26th, 2008 at 7:01 PM. It was an incredible birthing experience and he's as healthy and wonderful as can be!
If you don't want the journal entry birthing story, skip on down to the pics. :)
On Wednesday, the 25th, I went in to get an ultrasound to see how he was doing and how big he was getting. I figured he was big like Tucker and, seeing the results of the size of the baby the OB would definitely want to induce me. I wanted so bad to go into labor naturally- my prayer was to be able to do that if it was possible. I was told in the ultrasound that I was measuring about 38 weeks and he was 7-8 lbs!! I didn't expect that at all and it took so much pressure off knowing I could wait until 42 weeks to do anything because size wasn't a factor. The doctor still wanted to induce me the following Monday but then he informed me that he'd be gone all that week so it didn't really matter to him if I waited a few more days. So not only now did I not have the size pressure, but my worries I've had with this doctor weren't going to be an issue because he wasn't even going to be around! I went home feeling pure peace for the first time in a long time. Rudy says that's what did it. He thinks I have a lot of control over my body when I'm stressed (like when I got Lasik a week before our wedding and it didn't work...or so I thought, until the day after the wedding on our honeymoon when the stresses were over, I woke up and could see perfectly). And truly that could have been it. I was finally able to relax about the whole thing and feel like I had 'time' and could just wait it out. So I woke up the next morning at 5 with some decent contractions. I didn't think anything of it since I'd been having decent contractions on and off for the past MONTH, until I went to the restroom and saw some blood. The contractions continued, but didn't intensify too much so I told Rudy to go to school and I went about my day, going to playgroup, errands, and work. After work, at about 3, they started coming more and more consistent and strong. I called Rudy around 4 to see when he was coming home and he said he had just finished up his patient and was leaving right then. So I started packing some stuff and by the time he got home I was perty dern sure I was in labor. I told him we should probably get things together. We took our time and by 5:30 were ready to go...and I was feeling ready to go. We dropped Tucker off at the Davidsons (THANK YOU GUYS!!) and got to the hospital around 6. I was definitely feeling the contractions at this point and having to concentrate and breathe through them. We got in to register and started filling out paperwork as I leaned onto the back of the chair and tried to find my 'happy place' :) About 10 minutes into it the woman helping us looked at me and said, "I can tell your a trooper, but you need to go upstairs now, we'll finish this later". So we shuffled on upstairs and walked in to Labor and Delivery where a few doctors were at the front desk, saw me and said, "what do you think guys? she in labor? guess you can come right in!" joking around with me as I could barely walk directly into one of the rooms to get changed. Getting dressed into that gown was an experience! I didn't think I'd make it. After some serious struggling and deep breathing I made it into that beautiful gown and onto the bed. So whoever says to 'relax' through contractions obviously never made it to transition labor! How are you supposed to relax when your whole body is writhing in the most intense pain it's ever felt?? Well, more power to those who can. As soon as I layed down the contractions I thought couldn't get worse...got worse. The wonderful nurse was trying to get paperwork and questions out of the way. I looked at her and asked if she'd check me before going into my second great aunt's medical history. She did and her eyes got wide. I was at a nine and going fast. All of a sudden the room kicked into hyperdrive as they got everything ready for a baby and tried paging the doctor. Rudy was just shaking his head feeling sorry for the whole staff thinking they were making a big fuss about nothing because I was at a 10 for over 4 hours last time! The nurse told me to tell her if i felt like I had to push and "don't worry, this wouldn't be my first baby I've had to deliver!" Right as she said that my water broke. A few ridiculously painful contractions later I felt like I had to push. Just as I was about to start the doctor walked in. He checked me, said we're good to go anytime you want to start pushing! I pushed once just to try it out and see how it felt...SOO much better than pushing for hours when you don't feel the urge! I asked after that contraction where his head was. He said a -1 station (still a ways back in the pelvis). At that point everything came together and I just knew how I needed to push to get this baby out. It was an incredible experience and really brought to life a blessing Rudy had given me a couple of weeks earlier that talked about listening to my body and knowing what to do. The very next push I went from a -1 station to crowning. I asked if I needed to slow it down and he said, 'lets just see what happens'...I took that as, 'go ahead, get the baby out'. So one more contraction, one more push and...VOILA! A baby! :) From the time I got into the room to the time I had a baby in my arms was about 45 minutes. It was such an incredible, amazing, inspiring experience! I got to hold him and nurse him and Rudy got to cut the cord (unlike the hecticness of Tucker's birth). Besides the mind-numbing pain, I'm a HUGE fan of going natural! :) I did tear some, so while I held Cooper, Rudy and Doc had a nice bonding experience while he stitched me up. As Rudy puts it, "although the word 'vagina' and 'gingiva' may SOUND similar, as far as suturing, they're quite different!" (Insert smiley face rolling his eyes here). Ahh Rudy, I love you! He really was very supportive and I couldn't have done it without his words of encouragement. After it was all over, he said, "That was great! and SO easy! Let's do that again with the next one! I'm ok with have a lots more kids now!" :) Although I don't know if I want to talk about having another JUST yet, it was a wonderful, beautiful experience and I'm so grateful to Heavenly Father for answering our prayers in such a miraculous way and giving me a chance to be a part of something so amazing!!
We love our little boys so much and are so grateful for them! Welcome to the world Cooper!! We love you!
7 lbs 12 oz, 20 inches long. He has similarities to Tucker, but also definitely his own look.
Cooper and his parents about 30 minutes after delivery.
What a great dad!!!
Our celebratory dinner with steak, cheesecake, and sparkling cider.
What a good big brother you're going to be Tuck!



He's already found his thumb!
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Monday, June 23, 2008
Shouldn't you have popped by now??
I think that's my favorite of all the wonderfully helpful comments I've gotten as I'm now a week past my due date and NO BABY! Other equally endearing ones are: oh...you're STILL here?? Haven't you gotten that baby out yet?? Aren't you supposed to be done?? Haven't taken enough rides on bumpy roads, huh? CASTOR OIL! Why don't you try jumping up and down a little more? What's wrong with your doctor, why hasn't he induced you yet?? Oh...you poor thing. Bless your heart! :)
I guess I shouldn't be that surprised as Tucker wasn't even close to ready at 10 days past the due date. I'm hoping to wait this one out for another week and say lots of prayers because I want so bad to feel what it's like to actually GO into labor and to not have a replay of the horrible induction experience I had last time. The only problem is I have a doctor that is VERY much FOR induction and c-section. Why, you ask, have I not changed doctors?...that's an exceptional question! I heard so many great things about him just being ok w/ whatever the patient wanted and being really flexible...little did I know all the people I talked to were people who wanted elective c-section or to be induced 2 weeks early...he's not a fan of people who want to take the more natural route. Don't get me wrong, he really is a great guy...just not my style and I found it out too late. So now I'm just waiting with the doctor on my heels almost begging me to get an induction and telling me all of the bad things that can happen the longer I wait, while I get all kinds of comments from people about how bad my doctor must be because he hasn't induced me (little do they know :) or how crazy I am for wanting to stick it out until my baby ACTUALLY becomes overdue at 42 weeks. I think next time I'm just going to tell everyone that my due date is actually two weeks later than it is. :) Whew! Ok...I've officially vented. Hopefully the next post will be pics of a healthy baby boy! :) Just have to keep telling myself that I actually WILL have this baby...eventually....right???
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Wednesday, June 11, 2008
Tagged
Well...not even really knowing what being 'tagged' is all about, I got a threat from my sister, Ginny, that I needed to respond to her tagging me. Having played tag with her all growing up, I'm taking this threat seriously and responding! :) (love ya Gin! :) She also said something to the effect that after I do this, I can go into labor...so let's get this baby DONE! (pun intended)
list 3 joys, 3 fears, 3 goals, 3 current obsessions, 3 random surprising facts about yourself.
OK... 3 joys:
Can't narrow it to three...there are so many joys in life! Hubby, kiddo(s), family all over the place, friends, the Gospel, nature, art, beauty everywhere, a long jog on a cool spring/fall day (miss that so much right now in my waddling state!), good food, cuddling up to a movie, playing a sport with fun people, games, laughing, etc, etc, etc
3 fears:
1: Depths- hate the dark murkiness of not being able to see what's swimming below my feet!
2: Spiders- Rudy can attest to this one...doesn't matter the size, they all completely creep me out.
3: Finding out my body just won't go into labor and/or having a c-section.
3 goals:
1: Have my artwork hanging in a show/store.
2: Have all of my children active in the church as adults (goal/PRAYER :)
3: Take advantage of my obnoxious muscle mass and make the best of it by getting in REALLY good shape (Rudy wants us to be gym rats together...when we have money for a gym ...I'll leave the body building competitions and modeling to him! ;)
4: to be as clean and organized as Ginny and Dave :)
3 current obsessions:
1. How to go into labor :)
2. finding great deals/free stuff- love it! whether its upgrading our Sprint plan to 1200 minutes, free unlimited text, free unlimited internet and a new Centro for no increase to our plan cost, or getting coupons for free stuff at grocery stores at http://moneysavingmom.com, or getting on freecycle.org and swapping free stuff. Good times! (to those who know me, the cheapness factor should be NO surprise! :)
3. The Wii Mariokart and Dance dance revolution (although i've had to do a little less 'dance dance' and a little more 'shuffle shuffle'). Good times w/ hubby and good exercise!
3 random surprising facts about myself:
1: I can sing row, row, row your boat in a round by myself (or with Ginny when we do it alone together- which she so aptly pointed out is then no longer really a round OR by myself).
2: Though I DESPISED babysitting while growing up I REALLY enjoy being a mom!...I even really like the solitude it provides by not being in the 'business world'.
3: Despite my deep, inner cheapness and joy I find through great deals, I am excited to someday SPEND MONEY! (shh...don't tell Rudy :).
Now I think I'm supposed to tag someone else? I tag Rudy and dare him to post on the blog! :)
And there we have it... now just waiting for the contractions to start...
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Friday, May 23, 2008
Tucker's 2nd Bday
Happy Birthday little man! We can't believe Tucker is 2! It's amazing how fast kids really do grow up. I'm getting a better appreciation every day for the parents who say, "seems like just yesterday my son was that small...". It's so fun to watch him turn into a kid! He's got such a great personality and keeps Rudy and me laughing- from his crazy faces to cute backwards words in his little voice. It really is a priceless experience to be a parent and watch as your child learns and grows and becomes the person he/she is meant to be! What an incredible gift God has given us!! We love you Tucker and are so glad you're in our lives!!

How crazy is this- we found a brand new ball pit someone was giving away...and it's a DENTIST ball pit! You can play with the balls and extract the teeth!! :) Tucker's not the only one who loves this one!
He LOVES Trucks!!
Enjoying the ball pit
Had a little too much cake? :)
Tucker has never really noticeably thrown a TANTRUM until the very day of his 2nd bday. He had the whole package- four limb flailing, red-faced screaming, face contorting tantrum! Good to know he's TWO! :)
CUTE BOYS!!!
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Tuesday, May 6, 2008
Ode to Toddler beds
So this post is dedicated to Tucker's new experiences with his 'big-boy bed'. I just have to say I think the transition from crib to bed is SO MUCH FUN for the parents! It's like opening a random present every time we open the door after he's fallen asleep...where is he going to be and what has he destroyed that's laying next to him before he fell asleep. We have to make sure not to open the door too fast, never knowing if he's fallen asleep right in front of it or not. One of the first nights Rudy went in when it was a little too dark and almost stepped on the poor kid!
Needless to say, he loves his big-boy bed (cause it has trucks on it and we make a big deal of what a cool bed it is) and he seems to be getting plenty of sleep...whether it's in the bed or not!



Rudy's officially now a 3rd year dental student, having just finished his finals for 2nd year. He's got about three weeks off (which he'll be studying for the boards) and then back for a month of clinic, then three more weeks off when my parents are coming out (to visit and see the new baby) then back into crazy life starting in August. But this summer should be pretty fun and I should actually see a fair amount of him which will be SOO nice! We got fencing material off of freecycle so we're going to be putting up a fence for the backyard so this wobbling 8 month pregnant body doesn't have to run so much to keep up with the two year old! :) Our 'house projcts' are going to be mostly outside this summer I think. We've been working on 'landscaping' which term I use lightly because the majority of houses in VA don't worry too much about grass, driveways, or many flowers besides the ones that just randomly grow in the yard. But hey! We never have to water our yard! :) We're all about conserving water...riiiight. :)
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Thursday, April 17, 2008
Maymont Park
Here are some pics of Maymont Park. This place has a children's farm, a nature center, and some of the most beautiful scenery you could ask for. I do love Richmond in the spring!!





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